[Enhance] Support passing kwargs to update_params (#796)

* [Enhance]

Support step arugments and zero arguments with update_params

* Update mmengine/optim/optimizer/optimizer_wrapper.py

* Update mmengine/optim/optimizer/optimizer_wrapper.py

Co-authored-by: Mashiro <57566630+HAOCHENYE@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Zaida Zhou <58739961+zhouzaida@users.noreply.github.com>