[Fix] Add PyTorch 2.0 CI and fix unit tests (#1026)

* [Enhance] Make sure the FileHandler still alive after

* minor refine

* minor refine

* refine unit test

* update CI

* update CI

* Fix CI

* fix build_windows

* fix build_windows

* fix build_windows

* fix build_windows

* debug

* debug

* debug

* debug

* debug

* debug

* debug

* test windows CI

* Fix

* Debug

* Fix unit test

* Fix unit test

* Fix CI

* update image version

* update action/checkout and action/setup-python

* add condition to skip test compile

* [Fix] Update CI and fix unit test

* check compiling by attempting compilation

* check compiling by attempting compilation

* check compiling by attempting compilation

* use windows-2022 in runs on

* Apply suggestions from code review

Co-authored-by: Zaida Zhou <58739961+zhouzaida@users.noreply.github.com>

* update yml

* remove unnecessary assert

* assert grad is None according to the PyTorch version

* Fix code

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Co-authored-by: Zaida Zhou <58739961+zhouzaida@users.noreply.github.com>