by storing them in the visitor

This removes:
- The now obsolete quadrature_loop_statement.
- Quadrature weights are now a globalarg and we do not create a
temporary anymore.

In sum factorization we will have different temporary shape and access.

The backend selecting mechanism needs all modules to be imported.
This commit restructures the package to be able to do that. Placement
of some functions felt weird, but this can still be changed.
No more placements in __init__.py anymore though, as this will
result in cyclic dependencies.

Very wild, totally WIP.

and an example with stokes stress

including CallInstructions for accumulation etc.

targetting better indexing logic.